6 Ways to Show Your Husband Respect

1. Let him know that you appreciate the responsibility he bears for protecting and providing for your family.  Granted, lots of households are two-career families where wives also contribute, but husbands often feel more pressure to have all the answers for their families.  Let him know that you are grateful for his desire to care for you.
2. Encourage him in his chosen career, even when you feel like his work takes him away.  Men are hard-wired with a need to achieve and produce, and feel closer to you when you express an appreciation for that.  A husband who knows you understand his professional life will likely hear you out if and when you need to ask him to spend more time at home.
3. Be mindful of your tone of voice and expression when communicating with your husband, especially in moments of conflict.  You might be surprised to know how easily your sarcasm or harshness is interpreted by him as contempt.  You should be able to discuss anything in a marriage—but it should always be done with mutual respect.
4. Honor your husband in front of others—when he's there to see it, and even when he's not.  Don't give in to the urge to dump your husband's faults out on the table for your girlfriends to rummage through and ridicule.  If you really need to talk about your marriage, choose one wise friend or mentor in whom you can confide.
5. Acknowledge his value in all areas of family life.  Talk to him about the children and ask his opinion about key areas of parenting, even if you will be the one to implement the strategy on a daily basis.  Ask for his ear to analyze your situation at work.  Even if his brand of problem-solving isn't exactly like yours, you'll likely learn something that will help, and affirm for him his importance in your life.
6. Respect his need for physical intimacy.  Denying your husband this primary need is just another way of saying that he doesn't matter.  Furthermore, it creates greater emotional distance in the marriage, choking off the very affection and consideration wives desire.

It may seem old-fashioned to women who were raised with the cultural mantra of "me first," but respecting your husband is one of the surest ways to bring peace and renewed intimacy to your marriage.  Try it—you just might be surprised.

Short Sad Love Story

A girl wanted a ring

But the boy gave a Teddy bear

In anger the girl threw the bear on the road

the boy went to take it back but he was hit by a car and died

At his funeral, the girl cried n hugged the bear and the machine inside it spoke:
"Will you marry me? the ring is in my Pocket"

Express your Love

A boy walked into a CD store and saw a girl behind the counter.

She smiled and he thought it was the most beautiful smile he has ever seen before and wanted to kiss her right there.

He said "Uh... Yeah... Umm... I would like to buy a CD." He picked one out and gave her money for it.

"Would you like me to wrap it for you?" she asked, smiling her cute smile again.

He nodded and she went to the back.

She came back with the wrapped CD and gave it to him. He took it and walked out of the store. He went home and from then on, he went to that store everyday and bought a CD, and she wrapped it for him. He took the CD home and put it in his closet. He was still too shy to ask her out and he really wanted to but he couldn't. His mother found out about this and told him to just ask her.

So the next day, he took all his courage and went to the store. He bought a CD like he did everyday and once again she went to the back of the store and came back with it wrapped. He took it and when she wasn't looking, he left his phone number on the desk and ran out...

!!!RRRRRING!!!

The mother picked up the phone and said, "Hello?"

It was the girl!!! She asked for the boy and the mother started to cry and said, "You don't know? He passed away yesterday...

" The line was quiet except for the cries of the boy's mother. Later in the day. The mother went into the boy's room because she wanted to remember him. She thought she would start by looking at his clothes. So she opened the closet. She was face to face with piles and piles and piles of unopened CDs. She was surprised to find all those CDs and she picked one up and sat down on the bed and she started to open one.

Inside, there was a CD and as she took it out of the wrapper, out fell a piece of paper. The mother picked it up and started to read it.

It said: Hi... I think you are really cute. Do you wanna go out with me? Love, Jacelyn

The mother opened another CD...

Again there was a piece of paper. It said: Hi... I think you are really cute. Do you wanna go out with me? Love, Jacelyn

If You'll Leave Me... I'll Die

What does it take to be happy in a relationship?

 

What does it take to be happy in a relationship? If you're working to improve your marriage, here are a few habits of happy couples.

 

1. Go to bed at the same time
Remember the beginning of your relationship, when you couldn't wait to go to bed with each other to make love? Happy couples resist the temptation to go to bed at different times. They go to bed at the same time, even if one partner wakes up later to do things while their partner sleeps.

 

2. Cultivate common interests
After the passion settles down, it's common to realise that you have few interests in common. But don't minimise the importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy. If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. At the same time, be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you more interesting to your mate and prevent you from appearing too dependent.

 

3. Walk hand in hand or side by side
Rather than one partner lagging or dragging behind the other, happy couples walk comfortably hand in hand or side by side. They know it's more important to be with their partner than to see the sights along the way.

 

4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode
If and when they have a disagreement or argument, and if they can't resolve it, happy couples default to trusting and forgiving rather than distrusting and begrudging.

 

5. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she does wrong
If you look for things your partner does wrong, you can always find something. If you look for what he or she does right, you can always find something, too. It all depends on what you want to look for. Happy couples accentuate the positive.

 

6. Hug each other as soon as you see each other after work
Our skin has a memory of "good touch" (loved), "bad touch" (abused) and "no touch" (neglected). Couples who say hello with a hug keep their skin bathed in the "good touch," which can inoculate your spirit against anonymity in the world.

 

7. Say "I love you" and "Have a good day" every morning
This is a great way to buy some patience and tolerance as each partner sets out each day to battle traffic jams, long lines and other annoyances.

 

8. Say "Good night" every night, regardless of how you feel
This tells your partner that, regardless of how upset you are with him or her, you still want to be in the relationship. It says that what you and your partner have is bigger than any single upsetting incident.

 

9. Do a "weather" check during the day
Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is going. This is a great way to adjust expectations so that you're more in sync when you connect after work. For instance, if your partner is having an awful day, it might be unreasonable to expect him or her to be enthusiastic about something good that happened to you.

 

10. Be proud to be seen with your partner
Happy couples are pleased to be seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact - hand on hand or hand on shoulder or knee or back of neck. They are not showing off but rather just saying that they belong with each other.

 

Happy couples have different habits than unhappy couples. A habit is a discrete behaviour that you do automatically and that takes little effort to maintain. It takes 21 days of daily repetition of a new a behaviour to become a habit. So select one of the behaviours in the list above to do for 21 days and voila, it will become a habit...and make you happier as a couple. And if you fall off the wagon, don't despair, just apologize to your partner, ask their forgiveness and recommit yourself to getting back in the habit.

 If there was one key to happiness in love and life, and possibly even success, it would be to go into each conversation you have with this commandment to yourself front and foremost in your mind, "Just Listen."

I Love You

When U Were Only 5 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U...
U Asked Me: "What Is It?"

When U Were 15 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U....
U Blushed... U Look Down And Smile..

When U Were 20 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..
U Put Ur Head On My Shoulder And Hold My Hand.. Afraid That I Might Dissapear..

When U Were 25 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..
U Prepare Breakfast And Serve It In Front Of Me, And Kiss My Forhead N Said : "U Better Be Quick, Is's Gonna Be Late.."

When U Were 30 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..
U Said: "If U Really Love Me, Please Come Back Early After Work.."

When U Were 40 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..
U Were Cleaning The Dining Table And Said: "Ok Dear, But It's Time For U To Help Our Child With His/Her Revision..."

When U Were 50 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..
U Were Knitting And U Laugh At Me..

When U Were 60 Yrs Old, I Said I Love U..
U Smile At Me..

When U Were 70 Yrs Old. I Said I Love U..
We Sitting On The Rocking Chair With Our Glasses On.. I'm Reading Your Love Letter That U Sent To Me 50 Yrs Ago.. With Our Hand Crossing Together..

When U Were 80 Yrs Old,
U Said U Love Me! I Didn't Say Anything But Cried..

That Day Must Be The Happiest Day Of My Life! Because U Said U Love Me!!!
Please Appreciate Your Loved Ones.. Say "I Love You" To Them When U Have The Chance Now!!

Variety Love Letter

My dear FAIR and LOVELY (ek chand ka tukda) , after WIPRO (Applying Thought) so much ,I dare to say that You are my TVS SCOOTY (First love)  and  BOSCH (Invented for life)    and my AIWA (Pure passion). I always BPL (Believe in the best)  and you are SANSUI(Better than the best). You are DOMINO'S PIZZA (Delivering a million smiles)   for me. This is a COLGATE ENERGY GEL (Seriously fresh )  feeling for me.
   I want you to be my life partner but I think you are worried about your father who is KAWASAKI BAJAJ CALIBER (The Unshakable) and my father who is CEAT (Born Tough)  but don't worry as I am also FORD ICON (The Josh Machine) and rest of our family members are KELVINATORS (The Coolest ones). 

  If they say no, we will run away and marry and PHILIPS (Let's Make Things Better). They will feel MIRINDA (Zor ka jhatka dhire se lage) but I believe in COCA COLA (Jo chahe ho jaye).  For our marriage SAMSUNG DIGITALL (Everyone's Invited) and after marriage we'll be WHIRLPOOL (U and ME - The World's best homemakers)

  Trust in God who's always NOKIA (Connecting people)   who love each other. And we are WILLS (Made for each other) . Now that HYUNDAI(we are listening) the song of love, you must know that love is DAIRY MILK (Real taste of life) , SATYAM ONLINE (Fun, Fast, Easy ) and PARX (Always Comfortable). So never forget me. Ok bye!

I wrote little but PEPSI (Yeh dil mange more).

A Touching Story - Mother's Love

My mom only had one eye. I hated her... She was such an embarrassment.

She cooked for students and teaches to support the family.

There was this one day during elementary school where my mom came to say hello to me.

I was so embarrassed.

 

How could she do this to me? I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and ran out.

The next day at school one of my classmates said, "EEEE, your mom only has one eye!"

 

I wanted to bury myself. I also wanted my mom to just disappear.

I confronted her that day and said, " If you're only gonna make me a laughing stock,

 why don't you just die?"

 

My mom did not respond... I didn't even stop to think for a second about what I had said,

because I was full of anger. I was oblivious to her feelings.

 

I wanted out of that house, and have nothing to do with her. So I studied real hard,

 got a chance to go abroad to study.

 

Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. I had kids of my own.

I was happy with my life, my kids and the comforts.

Then one day, my Mother came to visit me.

She hadn't seen me in years and she didn't even meet her grandchildren.

 

When she stood by the door, my children laughed at her,

 and I yelled at her for coming over uninvited..

 I screamed at her, "How dare you come to my house and scare my children!

" GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!"

 

And to this, my mother quietly answered, "Oh, I'm so sorry.

I may have gotten the wrong address," and she disappeared out of sight.

 

One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house.

So I lied to my wife that I was going on a business trip.

 After the reunion,

I went to the old shack just out of curiosity.

 

My neighbors said that she died. I did not shed a single tear.

 They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have.

 

"My dearest son,

 

I think of you all the time. I'm sorry that I came to your house and

scared your children.

 

I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion.

But I may not be able to even get out of bed to see you.

 I'm sorry that I was a constant embarrassment to you when

 you were growing up.

 

You see........when you were very little, you got into an accident,

and lost your eye.

As a mother, I couldn't stand watching you having to grow up with one eye.

 So I gave you mine.

 

I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me,

 in my place, with that eye.

With all my love to you,

Your mother.

Always tell someone that you love them because you never

 know what day will be their last, or your own.

 

Always seek to resolve your problems or disagreements with

 loved ones because if either of you should pass on before,

 the one who is left alive will have the rest of their life to ponder those

unresolved feelings but will never find closure.

And closure usually brings Peace...

 

"I asked God, 'How do I get the best out of life?' God said, 'Face your past without regrets.

Handle your present with confidence.

And prepare for the future without fear!'"

Love , Wealth and Success

 

 

 

 

A woman came out of her house and saw 3 old men with long white beards sitting in her front yard. She did not recognize them. She said "I don't think I know you, but you must be hungry. Please come in and have something to eat."

 

"Is the man of the house home?", they asked.

"No", she replied. "He's out."

"Then we cannot come in", they replied.

 

In the evening when her husband came home, she told him what had happened.

"Go tell them I am home and invite them in!"

The woman went out and invited the men in"

"We do not go into a House together," they replied.

"Why is that?" she asked.

One of the old men explained: "His name is Wealth," he said pointing to one of his friends, and said pointing to another one, "He is Success, and I am Love." Then he added, "Now go in and discuss with your husband which one of us you want in your home."

 

The woman went in and told her husband what was said. Her husband was overjoyed. "How nice!!", he said. "Since that is the case, let us invite Wealth. Let him come and fill our home with wealth!"

 

His wife disagreed. "My dear, why don't we invite Success?"

 

Their daughter was listening from the other corner of the house. She jumped in with her own suggestion: "Would it not be better to invite Love? Our home will then be filled with love!"

 

"Let us heed our daughter's advice," said the husband to his wife.

"Go out and invite Love to be our guest."

 

The woman went out and asked the 3 old men, "Which one of you is Love? Please come in and be our guest."

 

Love got up and started walking toward the house. The other 2 also got up and followed him. Surprised, the lady asked Wealth and Success: "I only invited Love, Why are you coming in?"

 

The old men replied together: "If you had invited Wealth or Success, the other two of us would've stayed out, but since you invited Love, wherever He goes, we go with him. Wherever there is Love, there is also Wealth and Success!!!!!!" 
 

so dont foregt to invite Love into our life, and our life will be filled with wealth and success.

 

Love Marriage Vs Arranged Marriage ( IT Perspective)

 

 

Love Marriage: Resembles procedural programming language. We have some set functions like flirting, going to movies together, making long conversations on phone and then try to fit all functions to the candidate we like.

Arranged Marriage: Similar to object oriented programming approach. We first fix the candidate and then try to implement functions on her. The main object is fixed and various functions are added to supplement the main program. The functions can be added or deleted.

Love Marriage: It is a throwaway type of prototype as client requirements rises with time thus it is a dynamic system and difficult to maintain.

Arranged Marriage : Requirements are well defined so use of waterfall model is possible.

Love Marriage: Family system hangs because hardware called parents are not responding.

Arranged Marriage: Compatible with hardware Parents.

Love Marriage: You are the project leader so u are responsible for implementation and execution of PROJECT- married life.

Arranged Marriage: You are a team member under project leader parents so they are responsible for successful execution of project Married life.

Love Marriage : Client expectations include exciting feature as spouse cooking food, washing clothes etc.

Arranged Marriage: All these features are covered in the SRS as required features.

Love Marriage: Acceptance test possible you can try before you Buy.

Arranged Marriage: Product is sold on an as is where is basis, Product once sold will not be taken back !

 

Never say I Love You

Never say I Love You

If you don't really care

 

Never talk of feelings

If they aren't really there

 

Never hold my hand

If you mean to break my heart

 

Never say forever

If you ever plan to part

 

Never look into my eyes

If you are telling me a lie

 

Never say hello

If you think you'll say goodbye

 

Never say that I'm THE one

If you dream of more than me

 

Never lock up my heart

If you don't have the key.

10 signs guy is in love

 

10.You have forgotten your Ex
 

More often than not, a breakup is followed by a significant amount of time spent thinking about your ex and wondering whether or not you made the right decision in going your separate ways. Depending on how long the two of you were together, these doubts can resurface again and again.

Ever since you met this new one, however, the thought of getting back together with your ex is the furthest thing from your mind. Come to think of it, you barely recall what you found so great about her in the first place.

 

9. You can't stop thinking about her

 

Instead, you are consumed by thoughts of her. She just pops into your head for no apparent reason, and you wonder if she thinks of you half as much as you think of her. You wonder what she's up to and even consider calling her (but refrain from doing so for fear of looking overeager).

But it gets worse. You're out with your friends and you see something in a shop window and think about how much she would like that particular item, or you notice a poster for a show that she would love, but normally wouldn't even have looked twice at it.

If she's the last thing on your mind before you go to sleep and the first thing on your mind when you wake up â€'- and you've even dreamed of her on a couple of occasions â€'- then you don't really even need to read on to know if you're in love (but should anyway, just to be sure).

 

8. You care about her

 

There is a reason why you don't really want to know too much about the chick you had a one-night stand with: You don't love her. When you're in love with a woman, you want to know all about her: who she is, what she thinks, what makes her laugh. You truly care about her and her feelings.

If you truly love a woman, you feel bad if she had a bad day or is upset about something. You don't try to cheer her up because you have to, but because you can't help it.

 

7. You find her quirks charming  

The fact that she carries her passport with her everywhere she goes â€'- just in case â€'- and that, when she's eating, she can't help but construct every forkful so that it's the perfect blend of ingredients fills you with an inexplicable feeling of happiness.

She does and says things that make her different, and you like it. You can't quite put your finger on why, but it doesn't even matter. You like her just the way she is.

6. You have great chemistry

 

You can't be in love with someone that you have no chemistry with. If you seem to always be on the same wavelength, and think in similar ways, that's a great sign. If you also generate enough heat to set off a five-alarm fire bell, then she is probably someone that you could fall in love with, if you aren't there already.

 

5. You don't notice other women as much

 

Did you see that gorgeous blonde that just walked by? What do you mean, "no"?!?

Although you can't help noticing a beautiful woman when one walks by, when you're in love, some of them tend to slip under the radar, while others just pale in comparison to her. Furthermore, you don't seem to be flirting half as much as you used to.

You are slowly realizing that she's often the only woman in the room that matters, and for some reason that suits you just fine.

 

4. You love spending time with her

 

This one is pretty obvious but important nonetheless. You look forward to seeing her, and don't care much about what the two of you will be doing. Lately, just going for a walk with her sounds like the best way you could possibly spend an evening.

Furthermore, when you're not together, you miss her and wish you were spending time together
 

3. You dont mind compromising sometimes

There was a time when it was your way or the highway, but with her it's different. Not that she asks you to, but you don't mind missing a night out with the guys to be with her. And you find yourself trying to incorporate her into your plans or altering them to accommodate her.

You also find yourself not putting up a fight when she wants to go to Shakespeare in the Park. Although your friends find this very amusing, you know that deep down, they wish that they had found a love like yours.

 

2. Other priorities take a back seat

 

You used to train religiously, but lately, if she's free for dinner, you don't mind missing a workout. Not only that, but your workaholic tendency of bringing home your work on weekends to get ahead seems a bit excessive to you as of late.

Your ever-important "to do" list seems quite stagnant these days, as being with her always manages to render your other plans and obligations obsolete. What was it that you absolutely had to do by four o'clock again?

1. You start thinking about the future and she's in it

 

It used to be that the future with a woman meant your date on Saturday night, but with this woman, the future seems infinite. Not only do you plan to see her this weekend, but you want to see her a year from now as well.

When planning your next vacation, you know you want to spend it with her, and not a random beach bunny you happen to meet while you're there. And when you get an invitation to a wedding that takes place three months from now, you ask her to be your date without thinking that it's too far away to tell if you'll still be together.

A Different Love Letter

 

 

A different Love letter and a beautiful reply to it.

 

A teenage college guy sent a love letter (in Q/A format) to his classmate.

My Dearest Reshma,

Please answer the following questionnaire. For Options

(A) 10 marks,
(b) 5marks and
(c) 3 marks.

**********

 

1) Whenever you enter the class room, your sight always falls on me because:

(a) of love
(b) you couldn't control seeing me
(c) really ... Am I doing it?

**********

2) Whenever professor cracks joke, you laugh and turn and look at me because:

(a) you always like to see me smiling
(b) you are testing whether I like jokes
(c) you are attracted by my smile

**********

3) When you were singing in the class, I entered and immediately you stopped singing because:

(a) you are so coy to sing before me
(b) my presence influenced you
(c) you feared that whether I'll like your song

**********

4) When you were showing your childhood photo, when I asked for it, you hide it because:

(a) you felt ashamed
(b) you felt uneasy
(c) you don't know

**********

5) During trekking, myself and my friend gave you hand for lifting you and you took only my friend's because:

(a) you enjoyed my disappointment
(b) you won't feel leaving my hand after grabbing
(c) you don't know

**********

6) You were waiting yesterday for bus and didn't get into your bus...

(a) you were waiting for me
(b) you were dreaming about me and didn't notice the bus
(c) that bus was crowded

**********

7) You introduced me to your parents when they came to college because:

(a) I am going to be your groom
(b) you just want to know what your parents think about me
(c) just you felt like introducing me to them

**********

8) I told that I like girls wearing roses. Next day, you came with a rose on your head because:

(a) to fulfill my wish
(b) you like roses
(c) by chance you got a rose

**********

9) On that day, it was my birthday. You too came to temple early at 6:00 A.M because:

(a) you want to pray along with me
(b) you want to meet me before any one could meet on my birthday
(c) you want to wish me at temple because you are spiritual.

**********

If you have scored more than 40, then you are loving me. Don't delay in expressing it.

If you have scored between 30 and 40, love is budding in your heart and it's getting ready to bloom. If you have scored less than 30, you are in confusion whether to love me or not.

Eagerly awaiting your reply..

Love , Aakash

*********************

 

Reshma's reply letter was also in Q/A format ........

Aakash ,

Please answer the following Yes/No questionnaire.

**********

1) If somebody sits in the first row, normally people entering the class, sees them.

(a) Yes (b) No

**********

2) If a girl laughs and looks anyone, is it love?

(a) Yes (b) No

**********

3) While singing, if somebody forgets lines of the songs, will he/she stop singing or not?

(a) Yes (b) No

**********

4) I was showing to my friends (who are all girls) my childhood photo.

You poked your nose inside..... Right ?

(a) Yes (b) No

**********

5) I avoided to hold your hand during trekking. Couldn't you understand yet?

(a) Yes (b) No

**********

6) Should I not wait for my best friend (Anjali ) at the bus stand?

(a)Yes (b) No

**********

7) Shouldn't I introduce you to my parents as a friend?

(a) Yes (b) No

**********

8) You have said you also like Lotus, cauliflower, banana's flower. Is it true ?

(a) Yes (b) No

**********

9) Oh was that your birthday. That's why I could see you in temple. I come daily to Temple. Do you know ?

(a) Yes (b) No

If you have answered "Yes" to any of the question, then I am not loving you. If you have answered "No", then you don't know the meaning of Love.

Hope everything is clear to you . 

 

HOW TO MAKE LOVE ??

Ingredients:

4 Laughing eyes
4 Well-shaped legs
4 Loving arms
2 Firm milk containers
2 Nuts
1 Fur-lined mixing bowl
1 Firm banana


Directions:

1. Look into laughing eyes.
2. Spread well-shaped legs with loving arms.
3. Squeeze and massage milk containers very gently.
4. Gently add firm banana to mixing bowl, working in and out until well creamed. For best results. Continue to knead milk containers.
5. As heat rises, plunge banana deep into mixing bowl and cover with nuts, leave to soak (preferably NOT overnight).
6. The cake is done when banana is soft. If banana does not soften, repeat 4 steps 3-5 or change mixing bowls.

Notes:

1. If you are in an unfamiliar kitchen, wash utensils carefully before and after use.
2. Do not lick mixing bowl after use.
3. If cake rises, leave town.

 

 

Why do I love you ?

Why do I love you ?

 

 

Because

 

 

 

You're kind, and sweet and gentle,

Because

 

 

 

You're wild and silly and exciting

Because

 

 

You make me laugh when I'm crying and cry when I'm laughing

 

Because

 

 

You know me better than anyone else

 

Because

 

 

there's always something new to learn about each other

 

Because

 

 

 

You understand me when I'm not making sense

 

 

 

 

Because

 

 

You always know when to reach out

 

Because

 

 

Sometimes you seem stronger and braver than anyone and other times you're my very own cuddle bug!!!

 

BUT MOSTLY
Because

 

 

You're mine and I'm yours and we're so great together!!!!

How to propose ?

How to propose?

 

 When I saw your name next to mine,
In our wedding card,
I felt blessed.

 

When I saw you smile,
Seeing me in the traditional bride groom dress,
I felt teased.

 

When I held your hand,
During the marriage rituals,
I felt responsible.

 

When you entered my lonely bachelor life,
And changed it into a heavenly abode,
I felt lucky.

 

When you showed the same love as I did,
Towards my parents,
I felt proud.

 

When you scolded me,
For neglecting my heath amidst my hectic work,
I felt pampered.

 

        When I saw you scream,
Crying out of labor pains,
I felt helpless.

 

   When I saw tears of happiness in your eyes,
As you looked at our kid,
I felt blessed once again.
All these feeling have bloomed in my heart,

  

But are yet to blossom in reality.
As these are feelings I long to feel,
For these are still unfelt.

 

 Will you marry me?

*What's love?*

*What's love?*


When you are together with that special someone, you pretend to ignore that
person. But when that special someone is not around, you might look around
to find them.
At that moment, you are in love.

* ** *

* **
**
Although there is someone else who always makes you laugh,
your eyes and attention might go only to that special someone.
Then, you are in love.** *

* *

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Although that special someone was supposed to have called you long back, to
let you know of their safe arrival, ****your phone is quiet.
You are desperately waiting for the call!
At that moment, you are in love.** *

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If you are much more excited for one short e-mail from that special someone
than other many long e-mails,
you are in love.** *

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When you find yourself as one who cannot erase all the
emails or SMS messages in your phone because of one message
from that special someone, you are in love.** *

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When you get a couple of free movie tickets, you would
not hesitate to think of that special someone.
Then, you are in love.

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You keep telling yourself, "that special someone is just a friend",but you
realize that you can not avoid that person's special attraction. At that
moment, you are in love. *

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While you are reading this mail, if someone appears in your mind,
then u are in love with that person...
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Trust - A story about relations

Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter, "Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl said, "No,Dad.

 You hold my hand." "What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.

"There's a big difference," replied the little girl. "If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go."

 In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.

So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...

This message is too short......but carries a lot of Feelings. 

Feelings in Love

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A beautiful Love Story

The wind blew hard, Windows shattering, the monsoon rain starting early and Joe was already cursing the clouds.  Alas! It was his first day in college and he wanted to make sure he reaches there on time.  Things were going on smooth for Joe's family after their sufferings on bad debt.  It got settled down after Simon, Joe's elder brother got settled in a job, and it was not enough for Joe's father who ran a small restaurant assisted by Joe's mother.

 

Practicing medical were not easy on those days, Yet Joe took the challenge and got the seat into the best universities which he dreamt into.  The first day went on with usual introductions, induction programme and the rules to be followed inside the campus.  The whole week passed on with boring lectures, as all were keen to enter into practical.

 

The second week came on, before the session started, 'Excuse me Sir', a sweet voice entered into the class, nobody moved an inch of their eyes, and her name was Annie, with round eyes, wearing pink colored dress , sleeveless which added to her beauty.   Joe, felt something unusual, something he has never experienced in his entire life, kept on watching the girl until she came and sat beside him.

 

The session was over for the day and hardly Joe would have spoken to her some few words.  He couldn't sleep that night, thinking all the night about her looks and the voice which was haunting all over his body.   Days passed by and both had become good friends, sharing each and everything between them.  Annie as an extrovert, behaved quite well with everyone, helped Joe in his chores irrelevant of studies or other issues.

 

But, it was Joe who had become troublesome, the day he saw Annie, he couldn't sleep nor eat well, Is it love?, or just infatuation, he keeps asking himself this question several times and was not up to a solution. He thought, thought and decided it must be love as he was ready to do anything for her, her love!  But, had a doubt whether Annie would be having the same kind of reaction as what he had what if she gets angry and would stop talking with him.  The perseverance was going on in his mind and decided that he won't tell her of his love due to fear of losing her friendship.

 

On the other hand, Annie used to tell all her friends about Joe, her friendship with him, his advantages and the way he used to help her and share.  The holiday season started which is a hard one for Joe, because he needs to be separated from Annie for a month.  Annie never missed to visit her grandmother on holidays and decided to do the same.  But, she made one thoughtful deed to Joe by giving her grandmother's telephone number and to call her in case of any emergency.  It was always an emergency for Joe and he called up daily and was talking with her for hours. 

The holidays passed by and the results were published, both has quite scored well on all subjects.  Both went for some snacks to celebrate their score, 'Annie', called Joe, it would not been possible for me if u hadn't helped me in the subjects.  He thanked Annie with heart most wishes.  Annie on the other side was little furious and turned her face down, 'What happened ', Joe asked in a shaky voice.  'Why are u treating me like an outsider', Best friends never share a sorry or thanks.  That was her response which strongly built the foundation on Joe not to express his love as Annie completely believed on pure friendship.

 

Years rolled on and they continued to be good friends, the time came where they must be separated.  Few days after final examination, each one of them would be put on different places for training. 

 

Both Annie and Joe were silent in their usual place of meeting for hours; neither could talk nor laugh as they know their time has come.   After all these years of friendship, Annie for the first time asked Joe, 'What do you think of me?' , Joe was astonished and was searching for words to describe her, but couldn't talk anything , he said it in one word ' You are sweet '.  Annie didn't expect this, a single word, that's it, all these years of relationship and he told one word, 'Sweet'.  She couldn't control her emotions and started asking him to describe her more. She said, 'You are the only person who knows me better than the whole world.' 

 

Tears rolled out of his eyes, Instead of Joe describing Annie, she started telling about Joe, the day they met, the impression she got on looking at Joe, the things they shared, the stupid things he had done.  Hours passed by as the moment of separation came, both accepted the separation as it is a part of their life, but they felt something were missing among themselves.  Joe was down to earth and was feeling like a hell in his heart.  He neither could tell his emotions nor could destroy the friendship and was in a pathetic situation.

 

Annie hugged and wished him best and was leaving.  When she hardly crossed few yards, she felt that Joe was about to tell her something.   She turned and approached Joe and said, 'Did you miss anything'?  Joe   said to himself, 'I am not going to leave this opportunity, and decided to play in safer side.  He asked straightforward to her, 'What would u do if I propose you at this moment'. 

 

Annie's eyes got twirled; she didn't expect this kind of quotation from Joe.  She said, is it real? Or else, are you playing with me.  Joe was in a stronger position, he said, what would u have done if it was real and if it was a play on you?. 

 

Annie was in a perfect situation, she said in an affirmative voice, I would have laughed if it was a play, and if it was real, a long pause came, and she smiled saying, I would have considered you for the rest of my life as I would never be able to get my friend as a husband.

 

That's enough, Joe was on the top of the earth, and he ran fast enough to hug her and kiss her.   Tears rolled out on Joe's eyes and he hardly could talk.  Annie was on the other hand felt the meaning of love for the first time, she actually wasn't love until the last second.  But that long pause which made her to tell the answer, she was thinking all about Joe, and decided she will go for. 

 

Though the person whom you love might not know about your love for long, one simple word or indication of likeness is far enough to change their mind and fall in love without you.  It is not love at first sight, nor love due to friendship, but love on the sharing which two souls were doing without knowing that there exists some love…………………